You Have the Controls

Is there any part of your life where you feel powerless — where things aren’t going quite the way you’d like them to?

Don’t worry, I’m the same way.

Yet I’m not sure why we allow this.

We have access to the law of attraction – to the literal ability to create our reality.

But it can be very difficult to transcend out of victim consciousness.

It can be very easy to blame our problems on others, or “just the way things are.”

Hate your job? That’s just the way things are. or it’s your boss’s fault.

Don’t make enough money? It’s the bad economy, or your boss again, or, just how it is.

Can’t find a good relationship? It’s all those other people’s faults, or, just life.

Don’t live where you’d like to live? Well your dream house is so expensive and it’s just not realistic.

Blah, blah, blah.

What if every single one of these things, and anything else I didn’t mention above, is mutable?

What if it could be changed by you?

What if you could be doing the work you want, have the money you want, be in the relationship you want, live in the house and at the location you want, etc?

Am I saying this is easy?

Of course not! We have a whole lifetime’s worth of limiting beliefs and negative thinking.

But it doesn’t have to be hard, either.

It’s only as hard as we believe it has to be.

Plenty of people have changed their lives with a thought, because they didn’t think they shouldn’t be able to.

The first step is to take responsibility – to stop blaming it on others or thinking this is “just how things are.”

Any time you catch yourself complaining or thinking negatively about something, stop yourself and say, “Wait, does it have to be this way?”

Question everything. Nothing is static or immutable. You’ve created it all, or allowed it to be created by default because you didn’t know you had a choice.

Of course, the second step, and maybe the hardest, is to make peace with it and not need it to change right now.

But, that’s a subject for another day.

You have the controls of your life.

If you don’t use them, you’ll just keep getting what you’ve always gotten.

Your life will be on autopilot, as it is for so many who don’t realize they get a choice.

If you want to change your course, you have to take the controls and decide what it is you want to create.

Or at the very least, stop the negative thinking that is dragging you down, and allow the infinite wisdom of the Universe, which already knows everything you want, to direct you in the right direction.

Just never again forget that you have a choice.

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