Do you doubt whether your goal will come to you? Do you wonder how it could possibly happen? None of that is your job, but doubt can often be difficult to overcome. In this video, I’ll show you how you can overcome doubt, and what your role in the manifestation process really is.
Hey everyone! This is Melektoth. I decided to do a video today because it's been a while since I've done an actual video and sometimes, I prefer it this way. Today, I wanted to talk about how you're going to get your goal, or how do you know you're going to get your goal. A lot of people have that doubt about am I actually going to get it, is it going to happen, how will it come about, and that kind of thing. That doubt can obviously really block them from being open to receiving it. And so, people get caught up in this sort of limbo where they're waiting for weeks or months or even years, sometimes, to receive what they want, because they keep doubting it's going to happen. I want to talk about that for a little bit, and then later on, I'm going to share a little trick that I use to get beyond that doubt, so I'll get to that later.
Doubt was one of the biggest things that got in my way in the beginning. I'm a very skeptical person, so by nature, I doubt pretty much everything. I was wondering, does the law of attraction actually work? Am I going crazy? Am I delusional for believing in this? Is anything going to happen? That really was an obstacle to me in the beginning. It took quite a while before things started moving. I did have an initial success where the law of attraction really worked out for me when I was in a pretty big money bind. But after that, I just wasn't sure if it would work or not, and I wasn't sure if I was imagining the results, or if something was happening.
For me, there was no great trick especially in the beginning. I did figure out things over time, but for me, it was just seeing that it did work. Once it started working, it really, really started working. It doesn't help that there's a lot of misinformation out there, so I had to cut through all of that stuff to get through what worked for me. Once I started seeing that things worked, then that doubt started to melt away.
I want to talk about, because it is really important to have at least a belief or at least a possibility or an openness to things working out, to things happening for you. If you are doubting, you really want to focus on nipping that in the bud as early as possible because that will sabotage your manifestation very quickly. I want, specifically, to talk about the case where you just don't see a way for it to happen. You're asking for something big and it's not something that would normally happen to you; it's not something your subconscious mind is used to; and so, you just don't see how it could possibly happen. That's a totally new experience that you're asking for.
The thing I've really noticed over the past four years of using the law of attraction and figuring it out is that the Universe always, always finds a way to make it happen. Your only responsibility is to hold that vision within yourself of what you desire and not to contradict it, or at least to do your best not to contradict it. I really want you to listen to this because I know that a lot of people say this. I also know that a lot of people don't apply this. I really want you to hear what I'm saying, and actually go out and do it.
If you want something, if you are holding that vision within yourself, then there's nothing that can stop the Universe from bringing it about. As long as you are open; you don't even have to be certain; you don't have to have belief or expectation. You just have to be open that this can happen. As long as you have that openness, then the Universe will figure out a way even if it has to create an entirely new pathway that has not existed before, it will do that. That is not your responsibility.
I know people say this, they say, "Don't worry about the how," but yet, we do anyway.
Realize, and this will come from experience after you do try it and it does work, but right now, I just want you to trust what I'm saying; realize that if you are holding that vision, and you are feeling the end result of what it is you desire, that the rest is up to the Universe. The pathway to getting there, the specifics of how it will happen, you don't have to know any of that.
Now, inspired action may come up. You may have opportunities, and it's up to you to take those opportunities if and when they arise. Sometimes, you won't need to do anything. Sometimes, you will. But it's not up to you to figure out what the best action is.
I disagree with people who say try to take action daily, try to figure out what the best action is. It just doesn't work like that. Most of the process, about 99% of this process is under the surface. It's not even in the physical world of action. Most of it's just within yourself. You are just aligning yourself with the end goal, and then allowing the Universe to create that path, and maybe creating that path for a few weeks before you can even see anything. If you take action before that point, it's premature. I definitely believe in action, but you don't want to take it before it's time. You want to give the process plenty of time to work itself out. You want to give the Universe plenty of time to create that path.
Sometimes, there's not a path right now. Sometimes, it has to create an entirely new one, and that's okay, and it will do that. When it's time, then your part will be revealed. There's no doubt about that. Your only job is to hold that end vision and feel the feeling of that vision, of having it, of having accomplished it; and then not worry about the how, not worry about the implementation or the path of getting there. That is your only job.
Then yes, take action when it arises. Take those opportunities when they arise. Don't worry about it. It'll be really obvious if you're not sure, if you're doubting, if it doesn't feel perfect, if it doesn't feel like the right thing, or you're anxious about it or fearful about it, it's not the right thing; it's not the inspired action. Wait for that to come up if it does. Your only job is to hold that end vision.
My first major manifestation was getting off of government assistance, off of SSI. It took me roughly six months to do so. I didn't do it all at once. I did it step-by-step. I had been on government assistance for probably 10 years at that point, so this was a totally new thing. I had no idea how it was going to happen.
I didn't want to work in an office. I didn't want to be beholden to that kind of schedule. I had no idea how it was going to happen. What ended up happening was that I found a job in Europe that I was able to work at from home. Eventually, my wife also got a job, and so, we became really successful. Then that job turned into another job, which paid much better, and I was still working from home. Of course, my business started to be more successful. It's just all sorts of things started to work out, but that path had to be created.
When it was time for me to act, I only had to take one action, and that was just sending in my resume to an offer that made itself known to me. I didn't go looking for it. It was there in my normal every day path. I didn't have to do anything. It was just a sort of "Oh what the heck? I may as well send in this resume. I doubt anything will happen anyway, but I can't lose anything by trying. It was just that sort of flippant attitude. I didn't really care. I didn't really expect anything to happen. I was just open, and it did.
That's how I got off from government assistance after being on it for 10 years. The Universe found a way. I had no college education. I mean, I went to college, but I didn't graduate. No formal qualifications. Nothing, but the Universe found a way.
No matter what your goal is, the Universe will find a way to bring it to you if you hold that end vision. That's the requirement. That's the only requirement. Everything else is just extra. I know it's hard to overcome that doubt. I know that the doubt is persistent and difficult to overcome.
One trick I found that really helps with overcoming doubt is in something I said earlier. I said all you have to be is to be open. All you have to do is to open to the possibility of this happening. You don't have to be certain, you don't have to expect, that you only would have to believe that it will happen. You just have to be open.
I use something that I call, the positive what-if statement. A lot of times we use what if to sort of torture ourselves, like what if it fails, what if everything falls apart, what if it doesn't work. Instead of doing that, you turn it around and you say, "What if this works? What if I get what I want? Just what if. You ask it in sort of a question. You don't state I will get such and such, or I have such and such, or such and such is coming to me. You just say what if I could have it; what if I have it? Could it be possible? Is there even a tenth of a percent possibility of what you want being possible?
Of course there is. If anyone else has it, then it's possible. You may not believe it, but is there even a tenth of a percent possibility that it could happen? If there is, then focus on that possibility. Just feel that possibility. Be open to that possibility. That's the only opening the Universe needs to come in and make it happen. That small little opening will grow into greater certainty. All you need is it's not totally impossible. There's a bit of a possibility. To feel that, to focus on that ... because we know that whatever you focus on expands, so focus on the possibility.
Choose where you're flowing your energy. Choose where you're putting your focus. Focus on that small possibility (small to you) that it could work out. What if it could? Just feel that. Even just saying what if this could happen, just opens up a feeling within you, of possibility. That will be the beginning of your goal.
and do this every day. Don't just do it once and drop it. Do it every day and that possibility will grow. Keep holding that vision every day; a few times a day if you have to. Don't obsess over it, but do it every day. As long as you hold that goal, the Universe will create the path to get there.
Hopefully that helps. I'm launching a course on Monday that discusses this in greater detail. It discusses how to cut through the illusions of the mind and of your ego; and how to step into the place of your true power, where you really can create anything. I call it entering the Zero State or just Zero. If you'd like to check that out, you have a few more days to sign up for that. You can go to DarkAscent.org/zero, Z-E-R-O spelled out. You can check out that course. I would love for you to sign up.
Thanks for listening and I hope you have a wonderful day.
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